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5 Dec 2025

Tiny Humans, Big Feelings: A Toddler’s Guide to the Festive Season

Helping Toddlers Stay Regulated During Busy Festive Weeks.

The festive season is full of excitement, sparkle, and special moments, but for toddlers it can also bring a lot of unexpected change. Late nights, busy days, family visits, and new environments can feel overwhelming to little ones who rely on routine and familiarity to feel secure. When their normal rhythm is disrupted, it’s very common to see more emotional outbursts, unsettled sleep, or general overwhelm. Their brains are working overtime to process everything around them, and when the sensory load gets too high, their emotions can spill over very quickly.

As we all know, our little ones thrive on routine. During this season, naps may happen late or not at all, meals might be more on the go, and bedtime can slip as events run later into the evening. Our toddlers rely on the predictability you provide, because it gives them a sense of safety and control.

When overstimulated, toddlers can appear ‘wired,’ overwhelmed, or suddenly emotional. Their behaviour isn’t bad or ‘naughty’, It’s communication that they need a moment to re-regulate.

You don’t need a rigid schedule to support your toddler; instead, think about offering small, predictable anchors throughout the day. These consistent touch points tell their nervous system ‘you’re safe, we’re still connected, everything is ok.’

Here are some gentle, realistic ways to support your toddler:

1. Keep one or two familiar rituals steady

This could be a morning cuddle in the same chair or a predictable nap song and reading your usual bedtime story even if bedtime itself shifts. These cues help ground your toddler, reminding them that even when the day looks different, the relationship between you and them stays the same.

Repeating class songs at home reinforces bonding between you and your toddler, because toddlers associate them with fun and quality time they have with you!

Taking time to sing the “Hello” or “Goodbye” song at home during bath time, before leaving the house, or before sleep recreates that warm, connected feeling from class.

2. Create calming wind-down moments

After stimulating activities, offer a slow transition home:

• A warm bath

• Dimmed lights

• A cosy story

• Quiet play like puzzles or colouring

• An episode of their favourite show.

These help your toddler’s nervous system ease out of the excitement and prepare for rest.

3. Protect rest where you can

Even if naps happen on the move or at different times, giving toddlers some form of downtime can prevent over-tiredness, one of the biggest triggers for difficult behaviour.

4. Use predictable cues

If bedtime or nap time is later than usual, singing their Little Gym tidy-up or wind-down song helps anchor them with something familiar: ‘I know this song, so I know what’s happening next.’

These songs are intentionally repetitive and predictable, which helps children feel secure and regulated. Bringing them into your home routine can make everyday moments much smoother. For example, a tidy-up song to put toys away, a transition song to put their shoes on ready for the next part of the day, or a calm, soothing song to wind down before bed.

Toddlers don’t need a strict routine, just familiar patterns. They find security in repetition, so hearing the same songs and letting them hold a comfort item, can prevent overwhelm.

5. Build in quiet pockets

Not every moment needs to be festive. A 10-minute break in a calm room, a walk outside, or sitting quietly with you can do wonders for helping your toddler reset.

Your weekly Little Gym class becomes a real support system for families during the festive months. Amid the unpredictable days and late nights, The Little Gym provides a familiar, structured environment that your toddlers can rely on. Each class follows a consistent rhythm using songs and patterns they are used to; warm-up, exploration, skill practice, and wind-down, which helps your child’s nervous system feel safe and grounded. The movement-based activities allow toddlers to release pent-up energy in a healthy way, while the predictable routines offer the stability they’re missing at home this time of year. The combination of physical activity, clear structure, and warm social interaction helps them re-regulate, rebuild confidence, and feel secure despite all the seasonal changes happening around them.

With a little awareness and a few steady rituals, the festive season can feel more magical than overwhelming for toddlers. And with the help of familiar places like The Little Gym, children can stay grounded, confident, and emotionally balanced, even when the holiday hustle is in full swing.

This Blog was written by Erin Lamb from our Wandsworth Team!

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